What do you do when you've attracted a lovely person into your life and now you're terrified you're going to blow it? Or, terrified it's going to end?
Arm yourself with the following strategies, and you're sure to blow it in a relationship right from the start.
1. Assume the person is your soul mate immediately upon meeting or shortly thereafter. Look for signs that faith has brought you together and be amazed by the correlations in your lives.
2. Forget about your life, your friends, your self-care. When you have a soul mate, why would you need a life outside of the relationship?
3. Reveal everything, and test your partner with your worst behavior. Let it all hang out. After all, if this is truly your soul mate, he or she will love you no matter what.
4. Have sex right away. If you are meant to be together for a lifetime, you might as well get started on the fun part right away.
5. Ignore anything about your partner that does not mesh with your values, lifestyle, or belief system. True love can conquer such insignificant differences.
6. Do lots of drama together. Job, family, and life crises are great ways to establish a relationship and test whether or not you are meant to be together.
7. Spend as much time together as possible. When it's true love, you can't bear to let your partner out of your sight.
8. Ignore behavior that crosses your boundaries or hurts your feelings. It's true love, so it's ok.
9. Lavish a huge amount of attention on your partner or expect a huge amount of attention to be lavished on you. How else would you act if you finally found your soul mate?
10. Push the relationship forward and demand that it go deeper, in spite of where your partner is emotionally. You have the right to have the relationship be exactly how you want it to be and your soul mate owes you that.
Sunday, December 27, 2009
Monday, December 21, 2009
How to Make Your Ex Miss You!
Tired of chasing after your ex, only to be ignored? Has your ex stopped listening to all your pleadings, to the point he or she won't even take your calls? You may be making the number one mistake of all persons who find themselves without their latest love, which is, begging and pleading for his or her return. The fact is, you may be doing the exact opposite of your desire and driving your ex forever from your life. Stop. Just stop the insanity. Cease all contact. Make as if you have fallen off the face of the earth. This may be very difficult at first. Give these tips your very best attention and time, you may be shocked at the results!
Now that you have stopped the begging and pleading ploy. Take this opportunity to decide how you can better occupy your thoughts and time. Start a hobby. Catch up on your reading. Any activity that you enjoy and will keep your thoughts away from your ex. You were a great person before and with your ex and you still are! Develop those things about you that make you an exciting person to be around! You will be stunned to discover that your ex will sit up and take notice of your sudden disappearing act from his or her life!
Play catch up with old friends and family. It is perfectly acceptable for you to go out and enjoy yourself! Have a great time! And why not? You deserve it! Celebrate. Simply have a great time, simply because you want to! You don't need a reason, other than you need to get out of the apartment and have relax! Do not try to make your ex jealous or talk poorly about him or her, unless you have made the final decision that you are finished with that relationship.
You will be glad that you have turned the tables, in a sense, on your ex. You are no longer sitting home alone, pining over your loss. You are actively stepping back into and getting on with your ex. Your ex will want to know what prompted this change in you. What on earth, could you have found that is far more interesting than him or her? How is it that you look and seem to feel better than ever about yourself without him or her? Let that be your secret, and you will be shocked to find your ex snooping around to find out what happened to you!
Now that you have stopped the begging and pleading ploy. Take this opportunity to decide how you can better occupy your thoughts and time. Start a hobby. Catch up on your reading. Any activity that you enjoy and will keep your thoughts away from your ex. You were a great person before and with your ex and you still are! Develop those things about you that make you an exciting person to be around! You will be stunned to discover that your ex will sit up and take notice of your sudden disappearing act from his or her life!
Play catch up with old friends and family. It is perfectly acceptable for you to go out and enjoy yourself! Have a great time! And why not? You deserve it! Celebrate. Simply have a great time, simply because you want to! You don't need a reason, other than you need to get out of the apartment and have relax! Do not try to make your ex jealous or talk poorly about him or her, unless you have made the final decision that you are finished with that relationship.
You will be glad that you have turned the tables, in a sense, on your ex. You are no longer sitting home alone, pining over your loss. You are actively stepping back into and getting on with your ex. Your ex will want to know what prompted this change in you. What on earth, could you have found that is far more interesting than him or her? How is it that you look and seem to feel better than ever about yourself without him or her? Let that be your secret, and you will be shocked to find your ex snooping around to find out what happened to you!
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